As a mother brings into the world her child she hopes and wishes the best for the little one. She wants a life of happiness, success and peace for her. She wants her to be able to experience life to the fullest...
Carly Denise Haynie
Carly Denise HaynieJanuary 16, 1985
11:15 pm
7 pounds 10 ounces
21 inches
Fourth ChildThird daughter
Carly was born with a head full of dark hair.
One of the hardest things I have done was to call my mother after Carly was born and tell her that Carly was born without a hand. I didn't want my mom to be hurt or worried but of course she was she is a mother. But throughout the years the relationship between my mom and daughter has grown into one that is very much like my own with my mom. My mom has held Carly's hand many times...
When we brought Carly home it was a good week before Jarom (he was 22 months) realized that she didn't have a hand. When he did finally notice it he ran across the room away from her and was afraid to come near. After time he came closer and looked at her hand and then slowly reached out and touched it...and all was okay.
I also remember being very hesitant to take her to church...I was worried that people would shun her and treat her different thinking that she wasn't perfect.
My first week to church a friend of mine pulled off the sock I put on her stub to cover it, held her stub in her hand and told me what a beautiful baby I had...
I never forgot that...she was and is beautiful.
Jarom and Carly
(Check out the infamous mohawk)
Carly always had a smile.
Carly always had a smile.Carly still sleeps with "blankie" to this day...ask Mike.
It was taken in the back yard of 8557 Schneple Drive, San Diego.
Same day with daddy.
Same day with daddy.(Aunt Debbie in background)
(again sporting the infamous mohawk)
Think we need some tans!
Carly doing the "Lacey Lips"
Easter 1986

1st birthday

Carly doing the "Lacey Lips"
Easter 1986
1st birthday

Picnic with cousin Brittani
Mommy and Carly
Sweet Kisses
Carly and Grandma
Here's her smile again...Jarom trying hard to be in the picuture.
Carly and Daddy





Sweet face
2 year old 
Carly and Wilbur the cat.
Easter 1987

Mommy and Carly
Sweet KissesCarly, Daddy, Mommy
Jarom, Kiara, Alisha
Carly and Grandma
Here's her smile again...Jarom trying hard to be in the picuture.
Carly and Daddy





Grandma, Alisha, Kiara
Jarom, Carly
Sweet face
2 year old 
Carly and Wilbur the cat.
Easter 1987
Chicken pox!
She got one on her right eyelid and her eye was so swollen she had a hard time opening it up.
Jarom got the Chicken Pox the same time and so we had a very fun time...not!
Aunt Debbie loved Carly!
Christmas 1987

3 year old birthday party.
Left to right: Katie Brower, Jarom, Kara Mangum, Lacey (can't remember her last name), Kristy(can't remember her's either) and Carly.
At the park with Shannon and Susan MacMillan. Shannon was a little girl that was born without a hand. We met them at the doctor's and became good friends.
Carly and Cousin Kate
3 year old

In the hall at 8557 Schneple Drive, San Diego
Christmas 1987
Aunt Debbie loved Carly!
Christmas 1987
3 year old birthday party.
Left to right: Katie Brower, Jarom, Kara Mangum, Lacey (can't remember her last name), Kristy(can't remember her's either) and Carly.
At the park with Shannon and Susan MacMillan. Shannon was a little girl that was born without a hand. We met them at the doctor's and became good friends.
Carly and Cousin Kate
3 year old
In the hall at 8557 Schneple Drive, San Diego
Christmas 1987Mary (Carly), Joseph (Cousin Eric)
Family Reunion at Henry's Lake

Carly holding cousin Sagan
Family Reunion at Henry's Lake
Carly holding cousin SaganDr. Sedaguchi, Occupational therapist Cindy and I can't remember the prosthetist name : (
4 year old
In the backyard of the home on Bootes in San Diego
4 year old
In the backyard of the home on Bootes in San DiegoShe wore it everytime I got it washed.
She did look so cute in it.
Cousin Brittani and Clayton.
Love the mountains in the background.
Carly with daddy and Grandpa Brimhall.



Kindergarten 1990
Christmas 1990
I know how cruel kids could be and I didn't want anyone to hurt her.
Her kindergarten teacher was Mrs. Tamara Smith and she assured me that she would do all that she could do to make sure that Carly had a successful year.
Below are pictures of a PTA meeting that her class performed a patriotic song and dance for. They came out marching and singing and at the very end the did a ripple where they grabbed each other's hand. The litle boy didn't even hesitate when it came time to grab Carly's hand. He took it and they did the ripple.
It was at this time with tears rolling down my cheeks (yes at the PTA meeting) that I realized that my daughter was going to be just fine and I had no reason to worry.
I know that little boy never knew what he did for me that day...



Kindergarten 1990
Christmas 1990
Summer swimming at Flagstone Apts.
1st grade
6 year old birthday
1st grade
6 year old birthday(Also the infamous pepto bismal pink bug)
1992
Helping Grandpa B pick peas
Cousin Sagan and Carly
Floating on her back
Carly and Katie Brower

There isn't anything Carly can't do...even eat a popsicle while given Lexi her paci!
Swimming with the Dolphins
relay take off...
1992
Helping Grandpa B pick peas
Cousin Sagan and Carly
Floating on her backLacey, Carly and Cousin Brett
Carly and Katie Brower
There isn't anything Carly can't do...even eat a popsicle while given Lexi her paci!
Swimming with the Dolphins
relay take off...Cousin Brittani and Carly
Sleeping sisters:
Alisha, Lacey, Carly and Kiara
Bronze medalist for the Dolphins
Carly and friend Jordan
Carly and Lacey

3rd grade
Carly, Lexi, Aunt Debbie and Lacey
Carly, Lexi and Lacey

Sleeping Lacey and Carly

Guess who is in the pillows...

Heaven knows what she threw up to catch...
Carly and Lexi in the infamous Daisy Kingdom dresses I made.
4th grade
Getting American Girl Dolls for Christmas
5th grade
6th grade
Carly and Abby on Abby's blessing day.

7th grade
7th grade



Carly an Lacey
8th grade
13 year old

Again I told Carly that she probably wouldn't win when she wanted to enter into the Miss Madison Beauty Pageant.

Family reunion at Bryce Canyon
Bronze medalist for the Dolphins
Carly and friend JordanCarly and friend Kim Bodily held the sign to welcome him.
Notice Airforce One in the background!
Carly and Lacey
3rd grade
Carly, Lexi, Aunt Debbie and Lacey
Carly, Lexi and Lacey
Sleeping Lacey and Carly

Guess who is in the pillows...

She could use them and she made them functional but she was always so much better doing things with her stub.
Heaven knows what she threw up to catch...
Carly and Lexi in the infamous Daisy Kingdom dresses I made.
4th grade
Getting American Girl Dolls for Christmas
5th grade
6th grade
Carly and Abby on Abby's blessing day.

7th grade
7th grade


Carly an Lacey
8th grade
13 year oldShe came home and said she wanted to try out for Cheerleading.
I told her that she probably wouldn't make it, but she proved me wrong.
And she was the best cheerleader that Libery Middle School and Bob Jones High School ever had!
(of course I am not biased or anything)

I made her a dress and did her hair.
She looks so grown up!
Jarom was her chaperone.
They were always doing something crazy like this mud fight...
Again I told Carly that she probably wouldn't win when she wanted to enter into the Miss Madison Beauty Pageant.She won of course...1st place.


Family reunion at Bryce Canyon
Lauren and Carly going to prom I think...
Painting her bedroom
with Lauren
Painting her bedroom
with LaurenShe wanted a car and so I made her a pink car cake!


Blanket for Christmas
Carly, Erin Lunn, Liane Pedroso, Whitney Stem


Erin Lunn, Stacie Pearson, Carly, Marie Owsleski
1st place Fort Payne District


Blanket for Christmas
Kaitlin ? ,Carly, Stacie Pearson and Grace Toles
Carly, Erin Lunn, Liane Pedroso, Whitney Stem

Erin Lunn, Stacie Pearson, Carly, Marie Owsleski
1st place Fort Payne DistrictCarly and friend Wade Thaxton
Jarom and Carly at Jarom's farewell.
Lacey, Carly and Kiara
Senior Portrait
Training for the paralympics 2008
Jarom and Carly at Jarom's farewell.
Lacey, Carly and Kiara
Senior Portrait
Training for the paralympics 2008I love you Carly Denise Haynie Adams.
What a blessing and joy you have been throughout the years.








At La Jolla beach with mommy. 








When I sent Carly off to Kindergarten it was with some trepidation.
Carly in her infamous "brown" Easter dress







She wanted to go to Homecoming with friends in 8th grade. 


Madison Dolphins 15-18 year old relay team: 


She won the Bronze medal in the 100 meter breaststroke in Athens Greece.






The last person to take Carly's hand is her little girl:



7 comments:
Yay! I haven't seen some of those pictures! I was thinking we should do a post for my blanky... it definitely has seen better days. Michael asked if that was really my hair when I was a baby. Haha. Oh and I love how big my head was compared to my body. And the shot of Lacey's panties...
Don't read this yet...I am still working on it. I couldn't figure out how to save it without posting it.
Cute pictures!
Wow! Carly always looked like herself. I know that sounds dumb, but in every picture I can find her immediately. And her big smile hasn't changed a bit. I remember when I moved back to AL, meeting Carly for the first time and thinking she had the BEST grin!!
This made me cry.
You're such a great mom, and you have such awesome (and gorgeous!) kids.
This made both me and Kelly a little teary! We miss you guys! I have many memories of Carly, but one of my first ones is of Bruce and me blowing bubbles off our balconey at Flagstone while the Haynie and Thaxton kids chased the bubbles on the ground....They were all such cute and sweet kids! We loved them and hoped our future kids would be as cool as all those neat little Haynie kids! Thanks for the memories! ;)
Awe! Sweet post.So many of Carly's clothes in the pictures look like Kimberly's. The big bows on the head and the "Daisy Kingdom" dresses. So funny.
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